For decades, autism was primarily viewed through the lens of how it presents in boys. This led to generations of autistic girls and women flying under the radar, often misdiagnosed or struggling without answers. Although they maybe weren’t perceived by others as autistic, they were definitely seen as different (too sensitive; too blunt; not enough, the list goes on). However, in recent years, there has been a significant increase in autism diagnoses in women. This rise isn’t because autism is suddenly more common—it’s because we (*some of us) are finally getting better at recognizing it.
Autism in women often presents differently than in men, leading to frequent misdiagnosis or late diagnosis. Some common signs include intense special interests (which may appear socially typical, like deep fascination with books or TV series), sensory sensitivities, difficulties with social interactions despite appearing outgoing, a tendency to mask autistic traits, and chronic exhaustion from socializing. Many autistic women also struggle with emotional regulation, experience frequent burnout, and have a strong need for routine and predictability. Recognizing these traits can help more women get an autism diagnosis that can help them seek the right support and accommodations.
For many women, receiving an autism diagnosis in adulthood is life-changing. It can bring relief, clarity, and a new understanding of past struggles. However, it can also be accompanied by grief—grief for the years spent feeling misunderstood or unsupported. The silver lining is that a diagnosis, even later in life, can empower women to seek accommodations, build community, and improve in self-compassion.
At NeuroSpark Health, we specialize in diagnosing autism in women, helping our clients gain the clarity and validation they deserve. A formal autism diagnosis is more than just a label—it provides a framework for self-understanding, personal growth, and self-compassion. It can help women prioritize their needs, set healthy boundaries, and recognize their energy limits to prevent burnout.
Diagnosis also offers context for past struggles, validating experiences that may have been previously dismissed or misunderstood. With this insight, autistic women can access appropriate support, accommodations, and a community that fosters self-acceptance. Understanding one’s neurodivergence is empowering, leading to a more fulfilling and authentic life.
The rise in autism diagnoses isn’t a trend—it’s a long-overdue recognition of the diverse ways autism presents and a step toward ensuring all autistic individuals receive the understanding and support they deserve. We see you.